Did you have a tragic childhood?
Everyone has tragedy, it is something everyone has. Everyone’s life is tragic and childhood is only a little part of it. The person you are today is because of your childhood. Your childhood shapes your future.
Do you blame your parents?
It is a dream for every parent to have his or her child grow up into a responsible person. Even though every parent wishes the best for his or her child, at times bad parenting gets in the way of achieving this. Bad parenting may have lots of negative impacts in children’s life.
Why do you think it was a tragic childhood?
Did your parents used to abuse you? or Did your parents wished for your bad? or Did they never supported and put any effort growing you?
May be it is like, you have another tragedy which you have faced during childhood!?
What kind of parents you had?
There are three kind of parents:
i. Authoritarian or Disciplinarian : This type of parent take full authority of you and actually always try to discipline you. A few times allow you what you wish to do or experience. They judge according to themselves and they decides what is good or what is bad for you.
ii. Permissive or Indulgent: This type of parents take the authority too but they do not always try to discipline their child. They give permission to do what their children wants and also they give guidance and helps them in different events.
iii. Uninvolving: Uninvolved parents give children a lot of freedom and generally stay out of their way. Some parents may make a conscious decision to parent in this way, while others are less interested in parenting or unsure of what to do.
No parents want something bad to happen with their child.
They never treated you bad. They always loved you and they were wishing your good. But they never taught you how to love yourself. You were dependent on them and you never learnt to love yourself.
You can not love yourself until…
Till you are dependent on others for your happiness you can not love yourself. You don’t need to be justified by others that you are happy or not. When you realize that nobody gonna love you unless there is a selfish reason, then you start loving yourself. And it is the truth that, everyone starts loving you when you start loving yourself.
Anything mentionable is manageable..
Few lines to heal your broken aura by A beautiful day in the neighbourhood…
Sometimes people get sad And they really do feel bad,
But the very same people who are sad sometimes,
Are the very same people who are glad sometimes.
It’s funny, but it’s true.
It’s the same, isn’t it? For me and you…
Sometimes people are good and they do just what they should,
But the very same people who are good sometimes,
Are the very same people who are bad sometimes.
It’s such a good feeling, to know you’re alive,
It’s such a happy feeling You are growing inside
And when you wake up ready to say”
I think I’ll make a snapy new day