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Alpha VS Beta! How to be a High Valued Man?

alpha beta male Besides the word of alpha you know I really think high value man just
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Alpha VS Beta

Hello guys welcome back to another blog post on the Notifyhind blog. Now this one guys straight up we are speaking about how to become a high-value men. Now that words really been resonating with me as of late you know the whole Beta-Alpha thing like, you know that’s cool it makes sense and it gets clicks but really what I believe it comes down to. Besides the word of alpha you know I really think high value man just really strikes a good chord with myself and and hopefully you guys as  far as what we should strive towards being as men.

 High-value men that just sounds it’s just great you know it helps us, it helps the world around us our relationships etc etc. So how to become a high-value man?

It’s actually quite simple. Okay guys and I want to make it very clear that I am on the pursuit of this. You guys are on the pursuit there is no end destination and I forget who said it or maybe was Alan Watts or on something like tip of my mind, where there is no end destination and the second you believe that there’s an end destination you kill life.

Life is dead there is no point so it is a constant pursuit that all of us as men are attaining and reaching this high value status or becoming a high value man that’s the Clyde.

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How to be a High Valued Man?

Okay so with that said what do you do? I sent you guys the simple answer is to become a high value man. You have to put your priorities and mission first okay. Now I know you’ve heard me say this a bunch of times and I mean it it’s actually quite simple you know if you actually break it down, have any type of a relationship problem, you have really even like health problem, money problem, like if you look at 99percent of the issues and problems that you have in your life or the life around you.

 Their relationships it’s because you’re not putting yourself in your priorities first period. I mean it it’s really that simple so if you have an addiction with alcohol or with porn or with this or with that and it’s negatively affecting your health. Well clearly you’re not putting your priorities itself first you’re putting something outside external above you first it could be partying it, could be compulsively talking to women it could be “dude I don’t care what it is” and again I’m not saying I’m any better than you guys it’s simply just having the awareness to know this maybe it’s relationships right you’d think that like well.

You know if I’m to maximize this a relationship I should put this woman first and ironically that actually kills everything that kills the relationship because you’re not putting yourself in your priorities first, right, health relationships business.

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You know guys I just want to serve everyone and help everyone and just I’m going to give this all away for free and just have this and how this and have this dude you’re gonna go broke because you’re not putting yourself and your priorities first. You come first your priorities come first your essence come first your needs come first your wants come first your desires come first everything comes first this is what a high-value man is now, I know that may go against everything you’ve been taught because your thinking will wrong.

 High-value men must be someplace and you are right but they’re not selfish to the beginning damn hell no they’re not how can you be selfless if you’ve nothing to offer again I’ve spoken about things like this if you want to prove your relationships you focus on yourself you build yourself up their relationships organically naturally flourish you want to focus on your health improve, that well then you focus on yourself.

First you make sure you get the food you need you get the sleep you need, you get the distress you need, you get the fitness you need, health will naturally come you want to prove your business and you make sure you get the resources, you need the tools you need the skills you need business and money and service naturally comes.

Do you see how it all comes back to you first a lot of times when we try to become high-value men we think of the opposite as far as being selfless and just giving and this this this wrong comes back to yourself you are a high-value man I’m not saying other people are high-value men.

 You so put the energy back on yourself make yourself in the priorities first guys I know it seems backwards and counterintuitive and this is why it almost doesn’t make sense that ironically the most successful men who give the most are actually the most selfish you know and this is a complete different topic or a different rabbit hole but you just need to understand that you can’t give anything or be of service if you have nothing to offer nothing I don’t care how you want to be in how kind you want to be you’re useless you’re like a dry paper bag blowing in the wind, you have nothing to offer.

 I don’t know why that came to mind nothing you can try to be are source to everyone you have fuck-all to offer you have no money if no healthy of no relationships nothing be selfish that’s what I’m saying I know I’ve made a blog post similar to this but I need to beat this to you guys like I need to be this through your head because this is something I learned the hard way you know and I think the reason I make this guy’s is because making sure recording the reason

 I make this guy’s is because so many times on your hero’s journey or self-development you’re on the Entrepreneurship journey you’re gonna be told so many times that what you’re doing is wrong and that you’re selfish in a bad way and that you should care more about other people and the irony again guys is that if you were to listen to those people and care about these other people you’d be useless you yourself up you them up so stop listening to these people because they have no clue about

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 Okay listen to yourself build yourself up if your girlfriend’s crying and complaining cuz you’re not giving her enough attention well I’m working on my business I come first because if I’m to support you I need to support my goddamn self first your parents are crying because you don’t spend enough time with lesson to watch movies with us I come first bro if I’m to even watch movies how the am I gonna get there in the first place just by scratching my ass like I see this out of passion love guys you come first your priorities come first if you want to become a high value man put yourself first put yourself before your friends put yourself before your family put yes before your family before your dog before your girlfriend.

 I don’t give any shit ,you were the most important person and if you don’t understand that then you will be a low ass value man your entire life because you know what low ass value man do they try to please everybody and they try to give everything to everybody and be so nice and kind to everybody no and because they have nothing to offer they’re useless you know woman dude and then they say off you know what businessmen do to them they say off right health give me a break ,don’t be one of those men focusing yourself put yourself first be selfish and about everything else in life to naturally follow through.

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Do you worry too much about life?

Tips to stop worrying
How to stop worrying?

Do you worry too much thinking what will happen to your life? It’s good, you should worry about your life. No one else gonna worry for your life. But do you worry too much that its spoiling your fashionable life style? You shouldn’t worry too much. Now, How to stop worrying too much?

I am going to help you with few tactics that I apply in my life. So let’s start-

There’s no magic formula that will stop you worrying. But you have few steps, if you follow them you can definitely deal with your worries.

These steps are known as problem solving steps-

  1. Get the facts.
  2. Analyze the facts.
  3. Arrive at a decision—and then act on that decision

Do you know Aristotole? He was a great philosopher and polymath at the time of Ancient Greece. This method was taught by him. Yes, it’s that simple. And you must use it if you want to solve your problems that are harassing you.

GET THE FACTS:

It is very important to get the facts, because unless you have the facts you can  not possibly attempt to solve the problems intelligently. Without the facts you’ll be in confusion and confusion is the chief cause of worry.

H.E Hawkes, Dean, Columbia University says ‘Half the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision. As an example, he said- “If I have a problem which has to be faced at three o clock next Tuesday, I refuse to even try to make a decision about it until next Tuesday arrives. In the meantime I concentrate on getting all the facts that bear on the problem. I don’t worry,” he said.

“I don’t agonize over my problem. I don’t lose any sleep. I simply concentrate on getting the facts. And by the time Tuesday rolls around, if I’ve  got all the facts, the problem usually solves itself.”

So, When a decision is reached after completely analysing the facts then execute the decision, throw all responsibilities and stop even caring about the outcome. That means, don’t lose yourself in self-doubting which begins other doubts.

So. Why don’t you employ this technique to one of your worries right now?

Ask yourself these-

a) What am I worrying about?                                  

 b) What can I do about it?

 c) Here is what I am going to do about it.

 d) When am I going to start doing it?

If you’ve found your answers applying these then come back and type yes in the comment section.

“It’s not stress that kills us, it is our reaction to it.” —Hans selye.

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Harmony we need in India/সম্প্ৰীতিৰ এক মহান নিদৰ্শণ

Inda unites in crisis

In the time of lockdown this beautiful hindu family has arranged all the facilities for this muslim Mason labour and set the example of harmony this country needs.

লকডাউনত মাজুলীত আৱদ্ধ হোৱা এগৰাকী ইচলাম ধৰ্মীয় ৰাজমিস্ত্ৰিক ৰমজান মাহৰ ৰোজা ৰাখিবৰ বাবে সকলোখিনি সুবিধা কৰি দিছে- হিন্দু সম্প্ৰদায়ৰ এটি পৰিয়ালে। সাতামপুৰুষীয়া ঐক্য আজিও আছে অসমত আৰু ভবিষ্যতেওঁ থাকিব।        এইয়াই অসম সম্প্ৰীতিৰ এক মহান নিদৰ্শণ.,

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3 Basic tips on How to handle peoples

If you are facing problems in dealing people here you go with few tips how to handle with them:

Don’t Criticize, condemn or complain:

In stead of condemning people, try to understand them. Try to figure out why they do what they do. That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To know all is to forgive all”.

Give honest and sincere appreciation:

Every man you meet is your superior in some way. So, learn from them. Try to figure out other person’s good points. Give honest, sincere appreciation. Be hearty in approbation and lavish in your praise and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime.

Arouse in the other person an eager want:

What do you love? What do you want? If you stick on only you, you can not handle people. If you go for fishing don’t think what you want, think what they want. You have to dangle a worm in to it and then the fish will come to you.

First arouse in other person an eager want. He who can do this has the world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.

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